Unproductive Dating Attitudes

Actions and choices follow attitudes.  Some attitudes will be effective and produce desirable outcomes.  Others will sabotage.  Once you know the difference you’re set to go.

The most important relationship attitude you can adapt is to take charge of YOU.  There are some Positive Attitudes that YOU can immediately adopt to create a more fun, enjoyable and successful life, which will translate into a fun, enjoyable and successful dating experience.  On the other side of things, there are also attitudes that will sabotage a potential positive dating experience.  Here are a few Unproductive Attitudes:

  • Pessimism/cynicism
  • Fear of rejection
  • Having an agenda/being attached to outcome
  • Believing you need to “sell” yourself
  • Scarcity thinking

Here are a few things to remember if you’re feeling nervous:

  • Breathe
  • Make eye contact
  • Relax
  • Smile
  • Say “Hi”
  • Ask something non-threatening about them
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