Positive Dating Attitudes
Productive Attitudes for Successful Dating
Actions and choices follow attitudes. Some attitudes will be effective and produce desirable outcomes. Others will sabotage. Once you know the difference you’re set to go.
The most important relationship attitude you can adapt is to take charge of YOU. Here are some Positive Attitudes that YOU can immediately adopt to create a more fun, enjoyable and successful life, which will translate into a fun, enjoyable and successful dating experience:
- Let go of attachment to any outcome
- Be adventurous and curious
- Live in the present, keep past relationships out, and don’t worry about the future
- Adopt humor and gentleness – with yourself and others
- Become a learner; “knowers” are boring
- Focus on the connection not on results
- Let go of attachment to any outcome
- Be authentic. Dating is the place to practice being yourself
- Live purposefully, with integrity and intention
- Be willing to take risks, overcome fears, and stretch beyond your comfort level
- Let go of what others think or even might think
- Trust in abundance
- Let go of attachment to any outcome
- Balance your heart’s longings with your head’s practicality
- Be assertive, ask for what you want
- Say what you mean and mean what you say
- Don’t take anything personally, dating is about finding a match, not about rejection – of you or the other
- Did I say: Let go of attachment to any outcome???
On the other side of things, there are also attitudes that will sabotage a potential positive dating experience. You will find those here.
